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His OcD & Gadgets Drives me crazy


My husband is a wonderful man in so many ways, but his love for gadgets, automobile shows, cars, and bikes can drive me crazy. He's always looking for the latest and greatest technology and spends hours researching and comparing different models. His love for cars and bikes is no different. He can spend hours watching car shows and reading about different makes and models.

While I appreciate his passion and enthusiasm, his OCD can be overwhelming at times. He has to have the latest gadget or accessory and spends a lot of money on his hobbies. He can also get obsessive about keeping his gadgets and cars clean and organized, which can be exhausting for me.

I've tried to understand his hobbies and interests, but sometimes it feels like they take over his life. He spends so much time on his gadgets and cars that I feel like I'm competing for his attention. It can be frustrating when he's more interested in tinkering with his car than spending time with me.



And I have a bitter experience by his concern for car.It was a beautiful Saturday morning when I woke up feeling extremely sick. I had a fever, headache, and body aches, and I knew that I needed to see a doctor. I tried to get out of bed, but I could hardly move, and I felt like I was going to pass out. I called out to my husband, who was in the living room, and asked him to take me to the hospital.

However, my husband's priority was different. He was more concerned about his car, which had been making strange noises for a few days. He had promised to take it to the workshop that day and didn't want to postpone it. He told me that I should wait for a little longer, and he would take me to the hospital after he dropped off his car.I was shocked and hurt that he would prioritize his car over my health. I couldn't believe that he would even consider leaving me at home, feeling sick and helpless, while he went off to take care of his car. I felt ignored and unimportant, like my well-being didn't matter to him.

It was the most irritating and saddest part of our relationship. I had always thought that my husband would be there for me in times of need, but his actions showed otherwise. It made me question our relationship and whether he truly cared for me.

Despite the challenges, I know that my husband's love for gadgets, automobiles, and bikes is a part of who he is. It's a passion that brings him joy and fulfillment. I try to support him in his interests, even when it's difficult for me. I also set boundaries and make sure that we spend quality time together, away from his gadgets and cars.



In the end, I love my husband for who he is, quirks and all. While his hobbies may drive me crazy at times, they're a part of what makes him unique and special to me.

©®Wordwarrior

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